FORGET TO REMEMBER
2025
Who do we remember? And who do we forget?
Forget to Remember brings to life underexposed stories from the history of colonialism and enslavement, told from the perspective of women of color. Through a combination of music, dance, spoken word and performance, past and present come together on a journey through time and space.
Together with Shishani & Sisterhood and DOX, Sites of Memory works to highlight the voices of women role models from history. Their stories, often ignored in the writing of history, are given the space they deserve in Forget to Remember.
The performance is an immersive experience that brings the audience to a world of rhythms, movement, and powerful stories. Through the eyes of contemporary female and non-binary artists, the legacy of colonial histories is re-examined and connected to our current times.
With a collective of talented creators, a layered, artistic creation is brought to life that not only confronts, but also connects and inspires.
Don't miss this unique opportunity to collectively remember stories that should not be forgotten!
Groningen - Martinikerk
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Tue 11 November
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19:30 (as part of an evening long programme in collaboration with Diaconie in Stad)
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Wed 12 November
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19:30
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Duration: 60 min
Upcoming Performances in 2025:
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Groningen, Martinikerk, Martinikerkhof 3 (Tue,11 November - wed, 12 November)
Past Performances in 2025:
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Amsterdam, Amsterdam Museum at the Amstel, Amstel 51 (Fri, May 30 – Sun, June 1)
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Haarlem, Frans Hals Museum, Groot Heiligland 62 (vr 4 July - 6 July)
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Utrecht, Centraal Museum, Agnietenstraat 1 (Sat, October 4 – Sun, October 5)



Credit: Rien de Jager
Credits
Concept: Shishani, Katy Streek, Jennifer Tosch, Tieka Masfar
Research: Jennifer Tosch, Mapping Slavery Netherlands
Musical Direction: Shishani
Choreography: Jomecia Oosterwolde
Artistic Coordination: Gina-Alina Patilea
Direction: Jennifer van der Schaaf
Vocalist, Musician, Storyteller: Shishani
Storyteller: Tieka Masfar
Dancer, Pencak Silat: Asih Nije-Sungkono
Choreographer, Dancer, Storyteller: Jomecia Oosterwolde
Storyteller, Musician, Dancer: Wulan Dumatubun
DOX dancers: Julia van der Wouden, Veerle Brethouwer
Costume Design: Alejita
Scenography and Symbol Design: Judith Westerveld
Production Manager: Nehry Eyndhoven
Technical Coordination: Boaz van den Ban
Marketing and Communication: Amy Plasa, Marie - Louise Sauter
Photography: Rien de Jager
Videography and Photography: Bowie Verschuuren
Graphic Design: Wouter Stroet
This performance is a collaboration between Sites of Memory, Shishani & Sisterhood, and DOX.
Partners Amsterdam: Amsterdam Museum, Theater Bellevue, Nowhere, H’ART Museum
Partners Haarlem: Frans Hals Museum, Schuur
Partners Utrecht: Stadsschouwburg, Centraal Museum Utrecht, Afrovibes, Gemeente Utrecht
Partners Groningen: X_YUSUF_BOSS, Diaconie in Stad, Grand Theatre Groningen
Forget to Remember was made possible with financial support from: Fonds Podiumkunsten, Amsterdams Fonds voor de Kunst, VSBfonds, Provincie Noord Holland, Gemeente Utrecht en SK&L Fonds.
The performance features Dutch, English, Bahasa Indonesia, Tagalog, Oshiwambo, and Sranan Tongo.
FORGET TO REMEMBER - Costume Design and Set
2025
Costume and set design have always been an important part of the performances of Sites of Memory. We are pleased to share a glimpse into the collaboration and creative process of artists Alejita and Judith Westerveld.
“Since 2019 I have been working as a visual artist with Sites of Memory. In my practice, costume design, scenography and visual art come together to create a total image that strengthens and deepens the story. For this project I designed and made the costumes, hand-dyed the fabrics and cloths (selendangs), and developed the overall styling. The broken white symbolizes the purity of the woman, while the design embodies a heroic and spiritual power. In addition, I incorporated gold into the costumes: the golden fabric stands for strength, dignity and spirituality, and brings a ritualistic and radiant element into the overall image.” – Alejita (Alejandra Silva)

Costumes
For Alejita, an important part of the design is that the costumes are transformable: the aprons can turn into capes. In doing so, the design consciously breaks the stereotypical image of the woman in the kitchen and reverses this into an image of strength, autonomy and heroism. The performers do not wear their aprons as a symbol of servitude, but as a cape emphasizing their heroic and spiritual power.
The symbols printed on the cloths and costumes were jointly developed by visual artists Alejita and Judith Westerveld. They brought the images to life by manually printing them onto the cloths and costumes. The central symbols in the performance are the drop, moon phases, dragonfly and ammonite.
Drop with moon phases: This symbol honors the divine feminine and is a visual ode to the womb as a source of life, transformation and intergenerational connection. The flowing lines forming the drop refer to water, symbolizing flow, cleansing and emotional depth, and also to the ancestral line, women passing on their strength and wisdom from generation to generation. The moon phases above the drop – waxing, full and waning – reflect the phases of the female cycle – growth, release and rebirth – as well as intuition and change. The symbol is a call to sisterhood and the importance for women to support, heal and remind each other of their true strength.
Ammonites: These ancient fossils with their spiral-shaped shells symbolize the circle of life, growth and evolution. In different cultures, ammonites are seen as symbols of constant change and endless possibilities, and represent creativity, intuition, fertility and rebirth.
Dragonflies: As spiritual animals, dragonflies symbolize the wisdom and resilience to adapt to change. Throughout their lives, dragonflies transform – from water creatures, to land and air creatures. They symbolize becoming your true self through transformation.
Set
The set was created in collaboration between visual artists Alejita, Judith Westerveld and Boaz van den Ban. Together they worked on the scenography of the performance and made various set pieces to frame the scenes.
Judith designed an installation of portraits painted on crepe paper depicting three ‘women warriors’ from history who are mentioned in the performance. These portraits represent Ida I Dewa Agung Istri Kanya, military commander and king/queen of Klungkung in Bali; Ma Pansa, the ancestral mother of the Saamaka in Suriname who escaped slavery with rice seeds braided into her hair; and Nzinga, military commander and king/queen of the Ndongo and Matamba in present-day Angola.
This collaboration ensured that the costumes and scenography were aligned, and that from different disciplines the stories of female role models were brought to the audience.
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Visual artist, costume design and styling: Alejita (Alejandra Silva)
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Scenography and symbol design: Alejita and Judith Westerveld
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Set: joint creative process of Alejita, Judith Westerveld and Boaz van den Ban with artistic finishing touch by Alejita (cloths and braids)


Judith Westerveld - 'women warriors'
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